Regarding Internet Relationships and some NOrmal Updates
Ok... Lets see.. I'm tired to death coz its 2.30 am in the morning... And.. I got myself a part time job as a tutor at a Tuition Centre behind my block. So nothing much. I'm still doing great with my bf =D
Ok ok .. Back to main topic. .. Internet Crush and Relationship.
I'd take a example I saw at the MapleSEA forum.
Linky -> http://forums.asiasoft.net/thread.asp?qid=624884 (Wanna know what the rest said? Click on this link to find out)
Original Thread Poster and the contents.
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__________ = the guy
*Serene = the unlucky girl *
Her real name isn't Serene *
Ok. There's this girl named *Serene who likes someone from her guild and she had this feeling for him for a VERY long time. One day ( or night ), *Serene told him that she has feelings for him and he was stunned.
So she just kept quiet for a while and waited to ask him ONE VERY IMPORTANT question. After some time, she asked him "Hey ______, can i ask you something? Please answer me HONESTLY". Then the guy was like "Erm..Don't need to tell me the question, i aready know it." Then *Serene said "Okay, since you already know the question, can i know the answer?". ______ said "Is it a must?" *Serene told him that it is a must.
So, _____ said that he actually doesn't know the particular question. He was just trying to kid around.*Serene asked him, "Do you love me as in..more than a friend?" .________ said " What if i say no?what if i say yes?" She told him that if it's a yes, she would probably be happy and if it's a no, it's the other way round and she MIGHT quit the guild.
So _______ said "oh ****..I'm going to die if i say this.." *Serene asked him why he said that and she asked him to tell her because it is urgent. _________ was so mean to say that he doesn't love her and came to the map where she was training ( Line 2-Area 1 ). *Serene just teleported back to Kerning City and hid at the top of the map because she was really unhappy and heartbroken. _______ couldn't catch up with her because he is in the warrior category.
Now, *Serene asked many people for advises. They advised her to stay in the guild and just try to move on. They also added that if she really loves him, she should wait for him to be ready to open to her.
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Here's the full detail explaintion I'm gonna give. I am no love saint. But I know when to figure out what is a Virtual Reality (VR) Relationship and crush.
For a VR relationship never put too much hope whether the guy or girl will give you the answer that you want. Both of you dont know each other well! Neither have both of you seen each other before. So? Lose the feeling. VR relationship never works out. Ended up its either of the party getting heartbroken...
As continued... Some of the replies I saw from the thread. They say that the guy is mean to tell her straight into her face he dont love her.
Well. For what I think. I'm glad the guy told her straight that he dont love her. Rather than saying he loves her and have feelings for her. Juz to keep her staying in the guild. I sense some threaten in the story above. Threatening she will quit the guild if the guy dont love her. Well.... Quite childish way to get the answer she wants. Kind of back fired. If the friend of the girl of the story is reading my blog right now. No offence. I'm being frank and I thank god that the guy is being frank to tell her in the face that he doesnt love her.
He dont intend let you friend leave the guild neither does he have that intention. He just dont wish to give your fren false hope that he loves her. If she finds out in the end he doesnt loves her. And saying that he does is juz a way to give in to her. She will be much broken hearted.
Like WongTai says. The guy is clever to say no. He never met that girl before. Let alone have feelings for that girl. He's smart to leave the guild in order not to give her more false hope. I would do the same if I was that guy.
Back to main topic again. I've seen some cases of VR relationship worked out. But thats like 1/10 cases. Most cases is that the guy juz want sex or other things like money etc etc... Its never sturdy. You only know that guy thru VR and thru VR characters can be acted out and not truth. You dont know the guy in real life nor his true character. Thus I advice everyone. Dont fall in love in VR relationship. Coz its not worth it. In the end pple will ended up heartbroken like the girl in the story.
Oh well... Tats all I have to say for this topic tonight.. I juz hope that girl can think through and not dwell onto it too long.
Nighty peeps,
Love Huiru
Ok ok .. Back to main topic. .. Internet Crush and Relationship.
I'd take a example I saw at the MapleSEA forum.
Linky -> http://forums.asiasoft.net/thread.asp?qid=624884 (Wanna know what the rest said? Click on this link to find out)
Original Thread Poster and the contents.
--->
__________ = the guy
*Serene = the unlucky girl *
Her real name isn't Serene *
Ok. There's this girl named *Serene who likes someone from her guild and she had this feeling for him for a VERY long time. One day ( or night ), *Serene told him that she has feelings for him and he was stunned.
So she just kept quiet for a while and waited to ask him ONE VERY IMPORTANT question. After some time, she asked him "Hey ______, can i ask you something? Please answer me HONESTLY". Then the guy was like "Erm..Don't need to tell me the question, i aready know it." Then *Serene said "Okay, since you already know the question, can i know the answer?". ______ said "Is it a must?" *Serene told him that it is a must.
So, _____ said that he actually doesn't know the particular question. He was just trying to kid around.*Serene asked him, "Do you love me as in..more than a friend?" .________ said " What if i say no?what if i say yes?" She told him that if it's a yes, she would probably be happy and if it's a no, it's the other way round and she MIGHT quit the guild.
So _______ said "oh ****..I'm going to die if i say this.." *Serene asked him why he said that and she asked him to tell her because it is urgent. _________ was so mean to say that he doesn't love her and came to the map where she was training ( Line 2-Area 1 ). *Serene just teleported back to Kerning City and hid at the top of the map because she was really unhappy and heartbroken. _______ couldn't catch up with her because he is in the warrior category.
Now, *Serene asked many people for advises. They advised her to stay in the guild and just try to move on. They also added that if she really loves him, she should wait for him to be ready to open to her.
<---
Here's the full detail explaintion I'm gonna give. I am no love saint. But I know when to figure out what is a Virtual Reality (VR) Relationship and crush.
For a VR relationship never put too much hope whether the guy or girl will give you the answer that you want. Both of you dont know each other well! Neither have both of you seen each other before. So? Lose the feeling. VR relationship never works out. Ended up its either of the party getting heartbroken...
As continued... Some of the replies I saw from the thread. They say that the guy is mean to tell her straight into her face he dont love her.
Well. For what I think. I'm glad the guy told her straight that he dont love her. Rather than saying he loves her and have feelings for her. Juz to keep her staying in the guild. I sense some threaten in the story above. Threatening she will quit the guild if the guy dont love her. Well.... Quite childish way to get the answer she wants. Kind of back fired. If the friend of the girl of the story is reading my blog right now. No offence. I'm being frank and I thank god that the guy is being frank to tell her in the face that he doesnt love her.
He dont intend let you friend leave the guild neither does he have that intention. He just dont wish to give your fren false hope that he loves her. If she finds out in the end he doesnt loves her. And saying that he does is juz a way to give in to her. She will be much broken hearted.
Like WongTai says. The guy is clever to say no. He never met that girl before. Let alone have feelings for that girl. He's smart to leave the guild in order not to give her more false hope. I would do the same if I was that guy.
Back to main topic again. I've seen some cases of VR relationship worked out. But thats like 1/10 cases. Most cases is that the guy juz want sex or other things like money etc etc... Its never sturdy. You only know that guy thru VR and thru VR characters can be acted out and not truth. You dont know the guy in real life nor his true character. Thus I advice everyone. Dont fall in love in VR relationship. Coz its not worth it. In the end pple will ended up heartbroken like the girl in the story.
Oh well... Tats all I have to say for this topic tonight.. I juz hope that girl can think through and not dwell onto it too long.
Nighty peeps,
Love Huiru
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